There was something going on and I didn’t know how to deal with it. ![]() However, my journey was completely motivated by fear. A third, more humble, honest, and healthier answer (not motivated by fear) would have been a simple “I don’t know.” If yes, then what was wrong with me? Was I a bad person? How could I fix it? Could other people tell?Įither answer produced its own set of questions that I felt equally unequipped to answer. ![]() If no, then what was going on? Why did I feel different than other guys? Why did I often feel more at ease with a group of girls? Why did I think boobs were best left to babies? The way I saw it there were two answers to the question. I asked myself “Am I gay?” in the same way every kid on a road trip asks, “Are we there yet?”-earnest to know, yet dreading the answer. But when your sexuality is determined by deciding if you love Lady Gaga or Gigi Hadid more, it’s a shallow take in the first place. BuzzFeed will be right there to answer all your questions.Īlthough, if you’re like me and know exactly how to answer questions so that you get the answer you completely defeats the purpose. You’ve really got to add “quiz” to your search to get the full effect. I first sought Google’s wisdom on the subject sometime late in middle school. I’m joking, but there’s something to be said about needing to ask the question in the first place. ![]() If you’ve ever had to Google this question, you already have your answer.
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